I cant take off my eyes. Suddenly i got an wa messenger from ibu, she is screencapturing Instagramaccount which i have not followed yet, wkwkkw. But i know the person so deep. Here, she was my cousin , (cousin from my grondmom older sister). We both, raised in the same rural areas, the close conflict, hmmm the merely age. I call her, mbak, and insist to call mbak by her mother because of the hierarchy family, my grondmom is younger, so all of her children and grandson/ daughter set be "younger" no matter how older you were than your cousin We , both , have similarity, our parents love to compared us. I have been more prior than her on academic. I always get the top rank in my class. Oh yeah, she was my classmate too from preschool until elementary school ckckck Don't you know? What the most hurt things the parents do to their children? Yes comparing. Every body hates to be compared, they just want to be accepted no matter how bad they are. Comparin...